If you haven't already done so, now is the time to write your vows! You don’t want to save it for the night before and be scrambling to just write something down and it ends up not being as sincere as your true feelings. Set aside some time to write throughout the week with no phone, no tv, no distractions. Or even go someplace like a coffee shop or library, someplace you can sit down and focus on getting your feelings for your spouse in pen on paper.